Hello to all my beautiful parents, Moms and Dads, whether you are adopted parents, biological parents or single parents, We are all parents! It is difficult at times to understand our children but one thing we need to know they are apart of us!
The best thing we can do is love them……., love them as we love ourselves, what you don’t want for yourselves don’t give it to them. Don’t pressure them because your parents pressured you, you know you did not like it. Don’t do it because they do not like it.
Listen to them… When your children want to have a conversation sit and listen, just ask questions that can help you understand the point they are trying to put across. Choose your own time to have conversation with them about your concerns, not during the conversation they initiated.
Hang out with them…… You should never be too busy for your children, your time is very important to them, and their time should be very important to you. Have fun with them, let them play with you and see you in a happy mood with them showing them that you love them, it will make them feel special.
Speak to them positively…. Your children are sometimes face with difficult challenges as small as they are, they need your encouragement, they are amazing no matter what challenges you are facing with them. Tell them how brilliant and amazing they are when you do that, no one else can take that away from them.
When we train up our children well, with love we are training them to provide the same services for their families, this would leave to better societies, less single parent, less crime and a more loving community.